Menetapkan Hukum

(QS 5:44). Sesungguhnya Kami telah menurunkan kitab Taurat di dalamnya (ada) petunjuk dan cahaya (yang menerangi), yang dengan kitab itu diputuskan perkara orang-orang Yahudi oleh nabi-nabi yang menyerah diri kepada Allah, oleh orang-orang alim mereka dan pendeta-pendeta mereka, disebabkan mereka diperintahkan memelihara Kitab-Kitab Allah dan mereka menjadi saksi terhadapnya. karena itu janganlah kamu takut kepada manusia, (tetapi) takutlah kepada-Ku. dan janganlah kamu menukar ayat-ayat-Ku dengan harga yang sedikit. Barangsiapa yang tidak memutuskan menurut apa yang diturunkan Allah, Maka mereka itu adalah orang-orang yang kafir.

(QS 5:45). dan Kami telah tetapkan terhadap mereka di dalamnya (At Taurat) bahwasanya jiwa (dibalas) dengan jiwa, mata dengan mata, hidung dengan hidung, telinga dengan telinga, gigi dengan gigi, dan luka luka (pun) ada kisasnya. Barangsiapa yang melepaskan (hak kisas) nya, Maka melepaskan hak itu (menjadi) penebus dosa baginya. Barangsiapa tidak memutuskan perkara menurut apa yang diturunkan Allah, Maka mereka itu adalah orang-orang yang zalim.

(QS 5:47). dan hendaklah orang-orang pengikut Injil, memutuskan perkara menurut apa yang diturunkan Allah didalamnya[*]. Barangsiapa tidak memutuskan perkara menurut apa yang diturunkan Allah, Maka mereka itu adalah orang-orang yang fasik[**].
[*] Pengikut pengikut Injil itu diharuskan memutuskan perkara menurut apa yang diturunkan Allah didalam Injil itu, sampai pada masa diturunkan Al Quran.
[**] Orang yang tidak memutuskan perkara menurut hukum Allah, ada tiga macam: a. karena benci dan ingkarnya kepada hukum Allah, orang yang semacam ini kafir (surat Al Maa-idah ayat 44). b. karena menurut hawa nafsu dan merugikan orang lain dinamakan zalim (surat Al Maa-idah ayat 45). c. karena Fasik sebagaimana ditunjuk oleh ayat 47 surat ini.

(QS 5:50). Apakah hukum Jahiliyah yang mereka kehendaki, dan (hukum) siapakah yang lebih baik daripada (hukum) Allah bagi orang-orang yang yakin ?
Catatan:
Hukum Jahiliyah adalah hukum yang tidak bersumber dari Al-qur’an. Dengan kata lain hukum yang ditetapkan oleh manusia sendiri tanpa menggali dan mengimplementasikan Hukum Alloh.

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Al-Insan (Manusia)

(Qs 10:12). dan apabila manusia ditimpa bahaya Dia berdoa kepada Kami dalam Keadaan berbaring, duduk atau berdiri, tetapi setelah Kami hilangkan bahaya itu daripadanya, Dia (kembali) melalui (jalannya yang sesat), seolah-olah Dia tidak pernah berdoa kepada Kami untuk (menghilangkan) bahaya yang telah menimpanya. Begitulah orang-orang yang melampaui batas itu memandang baik apa yang selalu mereka kerjakan.
(QS 11:9). dan jika Kami rasakan kepada manusia suatu rahmat (nikmat) dari Kami, kemudian rahmat itu Kami cabut daripadanya, pastilah Dia menjadi putus asa lagi tidak berterima kasih.
(QS 14:34). dan Dia telah memberikan kepadamu (keperluanmu) dan segala apa yang kamu mohonkan kepadanya. dan jika kamu menghitung nikmat Allah, tidaklah dapat kamu menghinggakannya. Sesungguhnya manusia itu, sangat zalim dan sangat mengingkari (nikmat Allah).
(QS 17:53). dan Katakanlah kepada hamha-hamba-Ku: “Hendaklah mereka mengucapkan perkataan yang lebih baik (benar). Sesungguhnya syaitan itu menimbulkan perselisihan di antara mereka. Sesungguhnya syaitan itu adalah musuh yang nyata bagi manusia.
(QS 18:54)

the origin of man

Man and al-Qur'an

. dan Sesungguhnya Kami telah mengulang-ulangi bagi manusia dalam Al Quran ini bermacam-macam perumpamaan. dan manusia adalah makhluk yang paling banyak membantah.
(QS 19:67). dan tidakkah manusia itu memikirkan bahwa sesungguhnya Kami telah menciptakannya dahulu, sedang ia tidak ada sama sekali?

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How can we improve our listening skills?

Here are some tips to help you:
• start listening with the first word and then listen intently
• stop what you are doing and listen – don’t be tempted to do two things at once
• turn off all negative thoughts you have about the speaker
• think at the speed they’re talking, don’t jump ahead
• do not interrupt
• find an area of interest
• judge the content and not the delivery
• suspend your judgement and keep an open mind
• actively listen for ideas
• resist distractions if you possibly can
• make listening noises, particularly if you are on the telephone, for example ‘uh, uh, yes’, and if faceto-face ensure that your body language looks as if it is listening, give good eye contact.

Exercises for improving your listening skills:
1. Take five minutes a day to sit quietly somewhere, close your eyes and listen to all the sounds around you. Become conscious of them. How many different sounds can you hear? In addition to improving your listening skills this can also be relaxing.

2. When you are having a conversation with another person, receive what he or she has said before rushing in to make your contribution. If you feel you want to interrupt, think about pausing and breathing before you start to talk. A pause before you speak can also add significance.

3 Listen to the radio as much as possible – talk programmes, not music. What information did you receive? Can you summarize it?

sumber : “Communicating with more Confidence” karya : Pauline Rowson.
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Listening

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How to be a good listener

Listening, really listening, is the hardest thing to do and the highest form of courtesy!
Listening is an essential part of being a good communicator but it is a skill that is perilously close to becoming extinct.
As more and more of our communication becomes visual and text driven, i.e. Internet, text and computers we are forgetting how to listen.
Listening involves both: the ability to understand what is being said, and the ability to organize and analyze the messages
in order to retain them for subsequent use.
There are two types of listening:
1 casual listening
2 critical listening

Casual listening
Casual listening is what we tend to do most of the time. We are only half listening, we retain bits of the conversation, we discard other parts of it. As a result you often get the following scenario between two people:
‘Don’t forget we’re going out tonight.’
‘Are we? You didn’t mention it.’
‘Yes, I did, I told you two days ago. You weren’t listening.’
We often switch off, particularly when we are listening to someone we know well.
Critical listening
Critical listening requires concentration and stamina. Here you are making a real effort to understand the other person’s point of view. You are listening to them, retaining what they say, storing it away and then retrieving some of it later when you need it. These skills are essential in a sales situation and rather important too in an interview. If you have listened, and I mean really listened, it is highly likely that you will come away with a headache. You have exercised your mental
powers to extremes! In both the above situations you are not only trying to concentrate on what the other person is saying but you are also reading their body language, thinking about your own body language and formulating your response to their questions, plus thinking of your own questions to ask. Is it no wonder you end up with a headache?

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How can we improve our selfesteem?

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how to get Self Esteem

Many of us have been raised that to think or say nice things about ourselves is not ‘right’. It is sometimes much easier for us to find fault with ourselves than to find the ‘good’ in ourselves. It’s all very well to be selfdeprecating but this can become a habit, and a bad one at that. If we are always putting ourselves down then how can we ever communicate confidently?
So let’s try the following exercise:

Exercise
Taking a piece of paper write down the following:
1 Two physical attributes you like about yourself
2 Two personality qualities you like about yourself
3 One talent or skill that you like in yourself.
How easy was that for you? If you found it difficult, which many people do, then find someone whose opinion you value and trust and ask them to complete it for you, (you can also do the same for them) and then exchange notes. This can be a great confidence boosting exercise.
Next keep this piece of paper with you, to refresh yourself of your good points particularly when feeling low or nervous.
If you constantly focus on the negative then you will give out negative thoughts, your body language will give out the same and not only will you continue to feel negative but others will react to you in a negative or hostile way, or they will completely dismiss you and your opinions.
So you need to constantly remind yourself of your good qualities and what you have got going for you. Retrain your brain into thinking about the positive and not the negative. Your body language will therefore change and you will start to give out more positive body language signals.

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Building confidence

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Acting more confidently begins with thinking more confidently.

Your brain is a very powerful organ, it sends messages to your body, and those messages are relayed to other
people through your body language i.e. how you walk, sit, stand, your facial expressions and eye contact etc.
Therefore, if you think that your point of view is useless and that nobody will be interested in listening to you, if you feel afraid, or you see yourself as inferior then this will be relayed to other people through your body language and, because those are the signals they are receiving, they in turn will view you in exactly that light.
It is a vicious circle that you need to break and one which you can break.

If you can learn to think more highly of yourself then others will think more highly of you.

What is self-esteem?
Self-esteem is the picture we have of ourselves and the value we place upon ourselves. It is dependent on what others tell us about ourselves either directly or indirectly by the way they treat us. For example if you have continually been told as a child that you are too clumsy, too fat, too tall, or hopeless at school this could very well be the picture that you end up forming of yourself. If you are told you are useless you may come to believe that you are useless.
Here’s an example.
Tim is seven years old. He has made a new friend at school and his teacher has praised him for some work
that he did. As a result he was awarded his first gold star. He is bursting with pride and full of enthusiasm.

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Face-to-face customer service

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face to face communication

This is what customer service is all about. The aim of this section is to address a number of areas that all have the same basic component—face-to-face interaction with the customer. The ideas recommended describe the sale from start to finish, from the minute the customer is welcomed into the business to the time they leave. They should be memorised by anyone who deals with customers on a daily basis.
# Be welcoming
# Be organised
# Be prepared to make a recommendation
# Talk to the customer, not through the customer
# Do something unexpected
# Remember to say ‘thank you’

Be welcoming
A strong, warm and sincere greeting is considered one of the most basic of all customer service tips, yet it’s quite a rarity
these days. What is more common is either no acknowledgment or a rehearsed, insincere greeting.
You have a few short seconds to impress your customers when they first contact your business. This may be over the
phone or when they are walking in through the front door. A strong and positive greeting, with good eye contact and a big smile, is the perfect way to start off the relationship. Of course, sometimes this can be hard to do. You may have
had a late night, problems at home, a difficult customer earlier that day or a host of other problems that have soured your
mood. These all need to be forgotten. Every customer that walks through the door should feel important and welcome in
your business. A poor greeting is like a poor handshake—the customer goes away feeling unfulfilled.

Be organised
There really is nothing worse for a customer than going into a business where the staff can’t seem to find anything. The simplest request is thwarted because the staff can’t find a pen or the latest sales catalogue, or the credit card machine, or some other object that is essential for making a business work. Being organised is an impressive trait that gives the customer confidence in your business. If you can’t even find the simplest of items to complete the transaction, what other things could you have messed up? Foolproof systems are great for overcoming these kinds of problems. A simple thing like attaching a pen to the counter with string to eliminate the pen shuffle is a good idea. Neat stacking of stock in the storeroom enables you to tell at a glance what you have available for sale. There are literally hundreds of
ideas that you can use to improve your level of organisation and, as a result, the overall level of customer satisfaction with your business.
A constant bugbear for me is having to chase up suppliers to send me an invoice. We often have to oncharge services and we like to include a copy of the invoice to show our clients that we haven’t marked it up. We can’t invoice our clients until we get the bill from our supplier, so if they are slack it affects our cash flow.
If you feel that your organisational skills aren’t as good as they should be, find someone who is organised and get them
to help you get back on track. Often a fresh pair of eyes will pinpoint weakness in an existing system that can be easily
overcome.

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source : “101 ways to really satisfy your customers” author : ANDREW GRIFFITHS.
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