How men communicate problems

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Men and women react differently to problems that cause stress. A man’s reaction is to withdraw within himself. He doesn’t naturally confide but likes to examine the problem for himself, trying to resolve it in his mind, or ignore it in the hope that it might ‘go away’. Women do the opposite.
When women have a problem they like to discuss it, often confiding in close friends or their partner. Women ask why first. ‘Why have I got this problem?’ Whereas men will say ‘How can I solve this problem?’
The worse thing a woman can do when a man has a problem and ‘goes silent’ is to try and probe and get the man to confide. This will only prompt him to withdraw even further and/or get hostile, often causing
an argument.

quoted from :
SeminarSeumurHidup.com | Pintu Gerbang Kesuksesan Bersama James Gwee

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